I'm a philosopher, check out my Philosophy Corner Yours Truly, Ms Lovely
Moral of the story, in my opinion, when someone says I love you, but their actions says otherwise... Chances are, you are being played and it is lie used to benefit something from you. A player will accuse you of being controlling for demanding to put their words in action and try to use reverse psychology on you, by trying to make you feel bad for supposedly "rushing them and being pushy." I mean come on, you either love or you don't.
If you walked up to me and asked, "what is the purpose of life?" This is what I would say....
Can awareness change the world?
Why am I still typing !!!! Sht!! This hurts!!!!!!
You must have an intention to be in a relationship, to have a relationship at all.
That my friend is what I call real talent.